Friday, 14 November 2008

Anger and Love

You know what?

Forget the last post...I basically don't write my blog....so I also basically don't read other blogs...
so forget it =]

Anything new?...not that I can talk about.

Things still going good with Bape...

Lately I've been having major anger/tear outbursts...and the tinyest things keep making me cry.
You know when you're a boy (this is something I have never experienced), you get angry and want to hit people and take out your 9inch dagger? Yes?
Well when you're a girl, anger makes you upset (well, makes me upset...).
But lately I've been getting a similar feeling to male anger...I start snapping at people, and want to hit, and shout and scream.

I know it's probaly my hormones being messed about from being on the pill, but it's confusing and upsetting me a lot, and must be extremley difficult for Bape to deal with.

But he's sweet to me, he seems to understand, and doesnt snap back at me, he just takes it in, and gives me a hug and tells me everything is going to be okay.

I don't know how he knows this is the correct thing to do about you're girlfriend's mood swings...he's never had a girlfriend before me, just flings...

If you're male and you're reading this, here's a word of advice:

When a your girlfriend/sister/daughter is crying or angry or upset about something small, that can only sort istelf out...DON'T TRY TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM.
Just hug her and tell her it will be okay, that's all we need.

I learnt this from my mum.

She told me about how her mother was crying and upset once, and my mum didn't know what to do about it, but then my mother's grandmother just went right up to my mum's mother, and gave her a squeeze.

Sounds complicated (probaly from the repetition of 'mother' and 'mum'), but it's true...girls are said to be ridiculously complex...but really...we're not...in some ways.

I'm not too good at explaining myself, especially when I'm writing from school. I have no quiet time to think...around me are hooligans, looking over my shoulder, laughing, singing Katie Perry's 'I kissed a girl' at the top of their voices. Annoying, and hard to concenterate on my feelings.

This blog started out not being about feelings, but being a place where I can say sarcastic things about my friends and family.

Maybe it's important for me to write my feelings down rather than bore other people who haven't CHOSEN to hear them (like you readers...not that there are any...).

More about me and Bape:

We spend SO much time together, and when we're not in the same room, we're either on the phone, texting, on msn or thinking about eachother...which usually leads to texting or calling or going on msn.

Is this normal? Or is it just standard young love?

His friends get pissed off with it all, and are always telling him they miss him and he spends too much time with me.

But he doesn't seem to care that much...I think he pretends to, because he should, but we haven't started seeing eachother less...although we should, because he's got like 75897580 A2 exams after the xmas hols.

My friends are really nice about it, they say they miss not seeing me as much, but that they're really happy for me, and Bape told me how one of my friends had gone up to him and told him about how happy he's made me. =]

I am SO in love.



BYE NOW

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX MMG

3 comments:

Oscarinho said...

Yup, sounds like standard young love.
Good advice. I hope guys listen to you!

Moanie Miss Groanie said...

Thankyou Oscar =]

I'm afraid you're gonna have to meet him when you come over for chrismas...a hassle I know, it's a pain having to meet new people...but I have to meet you're girlfriend so...
He's wanting to do mechanical enginering at uni, like you. I'm sure you'll find interest in eachother.

X

Chu said...

Moanie, I read your post about a week ago and I remember I thought "wow, she's so, so right. That's all we need". This year I went through a lot (I think you read some of my posts) and my friends didn't know what to do to cheer me up. There was nothing to be said, some things were unsolvable, so I started telling friends: "just hug me. That's what I need". The guy I'm with, one of the reasons I chose him over another one I was seeing (who seemed "righter" to me) was that he hugs me instead of trying to analyze me and give a solution. The one I left used to do this: analyze me and ask me things that I didn't want to talk about when all I wanted was a hug. Hugs, hugs, hugs, all the time. Came here today just to tell that this advice you gave here is so useful that I'm gonna tell my friends to read your text. Glad to know you're in love! :-)
xoxo